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Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

Dos and Don’ts of Step Parenting | E317

Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

YAP Media Network | Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

Relationships, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.7890 Ratings

🗓️ 3 October 2022

⏱️ 78 minutes

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Summary

When you become a step-parent, you’re walking into a tricky situation. You may have the warmest feelings for your step-kids and a heartfelt desire to be a positive figure in their lives, and still find yourself thrust into the role of “wicked step-mother” (or step-father), with the pain of their parents’ broken marriage heaped onto your back… while your partner stands by helplessly. As a longtime marriage counselor, I know blended family problems like these are common, and incredibly challenging to overcome. It’s one of the reasons I advise couples to seek blended family counseling as a preventative measure, before problems arise. I also advise taking a very thoughtful approach to blending your families, and examining your expectations for what the role of step-parent will look and feel like.    Listen to “the dos and don’ts of step-parenting” to get real-deal advice on how to avoid the most common step parenting mistakes, and learn an approach to step-parenting that helps you release unhelpful expectations so you can create a happy, harmonious blended family.   With love,  Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby GrowingSelf.com

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0:00.0

This is Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby, and you're listening to the Love, Happiness, and Success

0:06.3

podcast.

0:09.3

Step parenting, blended families can be so challenging, but they don't have to be.

0:15.8

On today's episode of the show, we're talking about a different way of handling this complex situation

0:22.1

so you can find peace and satisfaction in your blended family or step parenting situation.

0:30.5

Your ears are not deceiving you. We are listening to an instrumental version of the song,

0:36.1

Let It Go, from the frozen soundtrack, if you are or

0:40.0

have ever been the parent of a small child. I'm sure you're intimately familiar with said

0:44.7

soundtrack. And, oh, and thank you to the artist, Resurrection for this iteration of the song. You can learn more about this artist on their

0:58.1

Bandcamp page, Resurrection1.Bancamp.com. I chose this particular song for a number of reasons.

1:07.3

First of all, it is a fantastic example of just one of the many things it is possible

1:13.0

to get into a very serious fight and power struggle about in a blended family. Are we the kind

1:18.9

of family that is going to allow the playing of children's musical soundtracks in the car?

1:24.7

So many things to fight about. But also, you know, the theme of today's show

1:29.6

is really about how to cultivate peace and enjoyment in a blended family or step parenting

1:36.7

experience through the act of letting a lot of things go cognitively, emotionally, and that's what we're going to be talking

1:46.0

about in depth on today's episode with my guests.

1:49.9

But hey, before we dive into that, I also just wanted to say hello and thank you to those

1:55.9

of you who have been reaching out recently with questions and comments.

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We recently released a new way, new and

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improved way of doing this on our podcast page on our website, growingself.com forward slash blog

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hyphen podcast. There is now a nifty audio voice recorder. If you would like to record a question for me to play an answer on an upcoming

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