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Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory

Don't Wait for the Breakdown: Why Therapy is Your Best Early Gift | Haesue Jo

Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory

Impact Theory

Business, News Commentary, News

4.75.2K Ratings

🗓️ 18 December 2023

⏱️ 59 minutes

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Summary

Deciding to ask for help and get emotional support in the form of therapy is a really tough decision for many people. We’re at a time in history where millions of people are dealing with mental health challenges. We’ve seen a rise of celebrities coming out to speak on their battle with mental health to help normalize the idea that it’s okay to seek help. Our guest this episode is a licensed therapist from BetterHelp, and she likens going to therapy to getting routine car maintenance. Waiting for your car to completely break down on the highway isn’t a great idea, and you don’t have to wait until you’re having a mental health crisis to seek help and talk to someone. Haesue Jo, MA is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and the current Head of Clinical Operations at BetterHelp, the world's largest online therapy service. This conversation is dedicated to helping people like you break through the mental barriers holding you back from your best life. Haesue is clearly an expert in therapy and does a great job addressing some key points if you’ve been on the fence about talking to a therapist and getting professional help. The way you show up for yourself, the way you parent your child(ren), the way you resolve conflicts, and even more importantly, the way you feel about yourself when you’re by yourself is all within your control. Emotional support makes it possible. Wisdom to Remember: “Generally happy and well adjusted people aren’t spending a lot of their waking moments afraid that people are out to get them…” “Some people don’t always recognize that what’s familiar might actually be very chaotic and painful and not helpful for a future of healthy living, but it’s familiar.” “You don’t have to be in crisis, in fact, I don’t want folks to wait until they’re in crisis to consider talking to somebody. The narrative around therapy is shifting now.” Follow BetterHelp:  Website: ⁠https://www.betterhelp.com/⁠ Instagram: ⁠www.instagram.com/betterhelp⁠  YouTube: ⁠www.youtube.com/betterhelp⁠ Hear more episodes on Impact Theory with Tom Bilyeu: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://open.spotify.com/show/1nARKz2vTIOb7gC9dusE4b⁠⁠ FOLLOW TOM: Instagram: ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/tombilyeu/⁠⁠ Twitter: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/tombilyeu⁠⁠ Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/tombilyeu⁠⁠ YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/tombilyeu⁠⁠ ***Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact?*** If you’re ready to find true fulfillment, strengthen your focus, and ignite your true potential, the Impact Theory subscription was created just for you. Want to transform your health, sharpen your mindset, improve your relationship, or conquer the business world? This is your epicenter of greatness.  This is not for the faint of heart. This is for those who dare to learn obsessively, every day, day after day. * New episodes delivered ad-free * Unlock the gates to a treasure trove of wisdom from inspiring guests like Andrew Huberman, Mel Robbins, Hal Elrod, Matthew McConaughey, and many, many, more * Exclusive access to Tom’s AMAs, keynote speeches, and suggestions from his personal reading list * You’ll also get access to an 5 additional podcasts with hundreds of archived Impact Theory episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists covering health, mindset, business, relationships, and more: *Legendary Mindset: Mindset & Self-Improvement *Money Mindset: Business & Finance *Relationship Theory: Relationships *Health Theory: Mental & Physical Health *Power Ups: Weekly Doses of Short Motivational Quotes  *****Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/3PCvJaz***** Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcript

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0:00.0

What do you do when you come face to face with the realization that maybe I'm not the hot shot I thought I was?

0:06.8

Whether it's a relationship hitting the rocks or a deal going south, we have all been there questioning whether this is our fault,

0:13.7

whether we are ultimately going to be good enough to do the things we want to do.

0:17.1

In today's episode, we cover some of these ideas and exactly how to deal with it.

0:21.9

This episode is critical for anybody that's trying to elevate their mindset and really build a positive future.

0:28.0

To walk us through how to build our mindset and really move forward,

0:30.8

we have Hussu Joe, MA, clinical therapist with better help to share the secret power

0:36.7

that happy, well-adjusted people have that other people

0:39.6

are missing. Brace yourself because by the time this episode wraps, you'll be re-evaluating

0:45.1

the stories you're telling yourself and uncovering the ways your own mind might actually

0:50.4

be a breeding ground for chaos and the way you could be sabotaging your own shot at true happiness.

0:56.1

I'm Tom Billu and welcome to Impact Theory.

0:59.1

I want to start with a quotes. One of the most famous lines in all of literature and it goes,

1:03.8

all happy families are alike. Each unhappy family is unhappy in its own way. And what I want to know is

1:10.2

what do all happy, well-adjusted people

1:14.4

have in common? Well, one thing that it comes back to is something called a secure attachment style.

1:21.2

Attachment styles are something that a lot of people will start exploring and learning about

1:26.4

and how they generally attach to largely romantic

1:30.5

partners but also very significant people in their lives. And something that I think many happy,

1:36.8

well-adjusted people do have in common is having what's called this secure attachment style.

1:42.4

And generally what that's referring to is that they can trust

1:46.5

that the people in their lives are safe. They can trust that the world around them is generally

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