Welcome to Let It Be Easy with Susie Moore.

Hello, my friends.

Here is a little bit of advice, take it or leave it, do as you will, as we head into the holiday season. Okay, because I know that many of us are spending time

with their families. I'm not. My husband and I are together here with friends this year,

which we're thrilled with. But if you're going to be in certain situations, maybe with friends,

maybe with family, and there are a couple of people who are feuding, here is something that might be

helpful. Again, with all advice, right, take it on, see if it fits. If it does great, run with it,

if not toss it away, right? Let it go. But this is something that I've actually learned the

hard way over the years, and it's something that I'm conscious learned the hard way over the years and it's something

that I'm conscious of now even though it's hard sometimes this is how you let it be easy

in the long term okay so maybe two of your relatives have got like a longstanding history

of something where they just don't agree maybe Maybe there's some type of fallout, maybe

there's a divorce. We all have our various situations and issues, right? I get it. But here is my

suggestion. If two people who you know, love, care about, have a disagreement and you are not

involved, right? It's their disagreement.

Know that, first of all, people who are disagreeing always look for allies, right? They look for

backup. They seek out support. And look, we all do this. It's human nature. It's like, I'm right. Isn't

that right, Jesse? Isn't that right, Susie? Isn't that right, Rebecca? Well, you agree with me on this, don't you,

Natasha? Right? It's very, very, it's human nature to leap to our own defense and to get

support behind us, right? First of all, just know that. But secondly, what I've learned, and I'll, yeah, I'll admit the hard way, is that you don't want to take a side.

Maybe you just naturally will and you have to do because something's important to you and that will be clear.

But if there's ever a moment of, oh, this is awkward, don't know what to say, don't

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