Hi my name is Louis Howes and welcome to the Daily Motivation Show.

Today's episode is designed to help you improve the quality of your relationships.

When your relationships with loved ones and yourself are on good terms,

everything else around you feels greater too.

That's why I want to give you the tools to deepen your relationships.

I think there's a something of a sense of entitlement that most of us have or that most people have when they're going out to date where they somehow feel like they're just owed the love of their life, that it shouldn't be difficult,

that they don't have to do anything, that it's enough that they are just them.

There's a line in Bridget Jones where Colin Firth, I think it is.

He's looking at Bridget and he's, he says,

I love exactly how you are, I love you. Like changes nothing I love you exactly how you are and it sometimes

we feel like we're owed that and it kind of becomes an excuse again to grow not to you know I don't

frankly I it doesn't really matter what you think you're owed in love no one cares I think it's the same thing with work and

You know so many people are entitled and they think they should just get a job. Yeah, and so the biggest criticism I get all the time, which I'm happy with as a criticism of my advice, is, well, why do you need to do all of this stuff?

Why can't you just, you know, go through life and and you know it when the time is right you'll know

why do you have to do all of these techniques I'm happy with that criticism if you if that's

what you think you're not my audience, because my audience are the same people that go to a business seminar to make more money.

They're the same people that say, you know what, if I want to start a a business I might actually need to know what

the hell I'm doing it's not enough to have confidence in life you have to have

competence yeah you have to actually know what you're doing and and that's what a lot of people don't know in their love lives. If you for example there's

there's something I came to understand. I was I remember once having a breakup.

It was the most painful breakup I've ever had. It was really, really in a bad way over it.

And a while later, I spoke to this woman on the phone,

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