You cannot let go the past, only a fool will let go the past.

When you say let go, what you're trying to do is to change it.

You cannot change it.

Or should I come to terms with it?

There's nothing to come to terms with.

It just doesn't exist except in your memory.

You must treasure your past.

Pleasant, unpleasant, nasty, horrible, beautiful.

Everything is there in the bag.

They're not living things.

They're only memories, right?

You must know how to use them to make yourself into a much bigger human being than what you are right now, with all these experiences.

Instead of that, you try to hurt yourself with

it. This is a choice you have. Whenever something that we don't want happen to us, we can

either become wounded or wise. Every memory, pleasant and unpleasant memories of life, can be used to your advantage.

If a lot of unnecessary, unpleasant things happen, you should become wiser sooner than everybody else.