Matthew Hussey here with Love, Life, Quick Question for You. Do you know the nine words

that you can text a man that will make you completely irresistible to him? No, I'm

not talking about sexting. This is much more intelligent because it allows you to keep

your standard and drive him crazy with desire at the same time. I think you can guess what

it is? I'll come back to this at the end of the show today, so make sure not to miss

a minute. So there's a situation that I think ruins a lot of early, new, romantic relationships.

I'm going to give you this scenario and I know you've probably been there before you can

play it out in the worst possible way. It starts like this. One person brings up that they

have this friend. If it's a woman, early on in the relationship, she'll be like, oh,

yeah, one of my guy friends, blah, blah, blah. And one of the immediate things that goes

through his head is, well, who is this guy friend? And have you hooked up? We have this

sort of initial insecurity and territorial nature that immediately makes us question the

opposite sex. Now, ladies, I'm going to be speaking to you in this episode because it's

a guy problem, I think, even more than a woman's problem that guys get overtly territorial

in this sense. You can have, for example, a woman who says, and this actually came up recently

with a friend of mine. She said to me, this guy that I'm dating and I really like, he got

really frustrated because I ended up telling a story and indirectly it referenced a guy

that I knew a few months ago. And I said, you know, it's his friend of mine and he said,

well, have you hooked up with him? And she said, yes. Now, she said, I was just being honest,

and I don't like lying. So I just said, yes. But ever since then, he's had this massive problem

with it. How do you get around this situation? Because it's tricky. You don't want to get into

the territory of always lying to your partner and saying, no, nothing happened there. I have a

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