Don’t Let It Change You | How To Actually Be Happier In 2024 (According to the Stoics)
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🗓️ 13 February 2024
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So eventually a group of corrupt Romans contrived to have Cato assigned to a posting in Cyprus, a veritable hotbed of misdeeds and sin. It was a place where politicians got rich, where they had fun, where they lived the colonial high life. “You will come back from there a far more agreeable man and more tame,” one of them predicted to Cato. They weren’t trying to bribe him, they just wanted to expose him to how things were supposed to be done. They wanted him to get a taste.
This was what Marcus Aurelius was warning about in Meditations where he talked about “imperialization,” about being stained purple, about being “Caesarified.” The status quo doesn’t like people who buck it. No, the status quo contrives to apply pressure and persuasion on us, to get us to go along. It tries to change us, tries to lead us away from those pesky virtues of courage and temperance and justice and wisdom.
If you want to learn more about Cato, the Stoics all other Stoics admired, the man that George Washington made his hero, check out our video: 5 Stoic Secrets from the Man of Principle (Cato the Younger). We also dedicate a whole chapter to Cato in Lives of the Stoics (signed copies here!).
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the Daily Stoic Podcast where each day we read a passage of ancient wisdom designed to help you in your everyday life. |
| 0:11.0 | On Tuesdays we take a closer look at these stoic ideas, how we can apply them in our |
| 0:16.1 | actual lives. Thanks for listening and I hope you enjoy. Don't let it change you. |
| 0:25.0 | Kato was too good for his own good, some Romans thought. |
| 0:31.0 | He didn't take bribes, he didn't cook the books he wasn't motivated |
| 0:33.8 | by ego and worse he seemed to expect others should follow this same moral code. |
| 0:39.9 | They didn't want to we can't all be, went the expression, usually said with a shrug before someone did the wrong thing. |
| 0:47.0 | So eventually a group of corrupt Romans contrived to have Cato assigned to a posting in Cyprus, a veritable hotbed of misdeeds and sin. It was a place where |
| 0:56.3 | politicians got rich, where they had fun, where they lived the high colonial life. |
| 1:01.1 | You will come back from there, a far more agreeable man and more tame, one of them predicted |
| 1:05.1 | the Cato. They weren't trying to bribe him, they just wanted to expose him to how things were |
| 1:09.3 | supposed to be done. They wanted him to get a taste. This is what Marcus Aurelius was |
| 1:14.4 | warning about in meditations where she talked about imperialization, being |
| 1:18.8 | stained purple, about being Caesarified. The status quo isn't like people who bucket. No, the status |
| 1:25.1 | quote contrives to apply pressure and persuasion on us to get us to go along. |
| 1:29.1 | It tries to change us, tries to lead us away from these pesky virtues of courage and |
| 1:35.0 | temperance and justice and wisdom. We have to be strong like Cato, we have to |
| 1:39.6 | resist, we have to come back as he did the same person we were when we left. |
| 1:43.2 | We have to keep fighting to be the person that philosophy wants us to be. |
| 1:48.0 | And by the way, we have a really good video and a really good podcast episode all about Cato if you want to learn more about him. |
| 1:54.7 | You can check out five Stoic secrets from the man of principal. I'll link to that and of course I have a chapter all about |
| 2:00.8 | dear Cato in lives of the Sto. So check that out also. |
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