Don’t Let Her Die Before You Say This
Ask Pastor John
Desiring God
4.9 • 4.1K Ratings
🗓️ 27 April 2026
⏱️ 10 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | Imagine you are a brand new believer, new to the faith, and your mother is an unbeliever, |
| 0:11.4 | a woman who has fought cancer four times, but now she's running out of time, and it looks |
| 0:17.0 | like she is losing her final battle. |
| 0:20.5 | What do you say to her when the clock is ticking, the stakes are eternal, and you are new to the faith? |
| 0:28.2 | Today I ask Pastor John, don't let her die before you say this. |
| 0:34.2 | Pastor John, hello, my name is Ethan in Newcastle, England. My mother, who has battled cancer |
| 0:39.7 | four times since she was 18, is now facing what appears to be her final fight at the age of 51. |
| 0:47.9 | As a believer of only two years, I am heartbroken, knowing she could pass away without the peace |
| 0:53.1 | found in Christ. |
| 0:59.1 | I've shared the gospel with her and will continue to do so, trusting in God's sovereignty. |
| 1:05.8 | While staying by her side to comfort her, how can I, as a young Christian, navigate this difficult situation in a way that honors God and reflects his love to my mother. |
| 1:12.3 | Ethan, I don't know if we have recorded this in time. |
| 1:16.5 | It may be that your mother is already gone. |
| 1:19.3 | If so, I'm sorry we didn't make it in time, but I do hope that what I say here will be |
| 1:25.2 | of some help to you and to others, perhaps, |
| 1:28.2 | since that will not be the last time that you say goodbye to somebody you love. |
| 1:33.6 | As I thought about how I might be of help, |
| 1:37.1 | it seemed to me that the best thing I could do is to make the connection |
| 1:41.4 | between your love for your mother and the love of Christ for you. |
| 1:48.8 | It seems to me that you already have the right instincts for how to love her, |
| 1:54.7 | because you say you're going to stay by her and comfort her, |
| 1:59.8 | and that you've tried to share the gospel with her. |
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