DON’T LET FRIENDSHIPS DRAIN YOU EMOTIONALLY—HOW TO HAVE RESPONSIBLE BOUNDARIES
Transformed with Dr. Greg Gifford
Fortis Institute
4.9 • 711 Ratings
🗓️ 22 May 2025
⏱️ 26 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | What is? What is? What is? What is biblical counseling? |
| 0:03.9 | Biblical counseling will grow you from brokenness to wholeness. |
| 0:07.8 | I think what you just said made me look at those scenarios differently. |
| 0:10.5 | God replaced all my junk with a beautiful light. |
| 0:14.8 | God's really been changing the way that I parent my children. |
| 0:19.9 | The most amazing thing is the sufficiency of his word. |
| 0:23.6 | This is Transform. |
| 0:25.6 | And now your host, Assistant Professor of Biblical Counseling at the Master's University |
| 0:30.6 | and certified biblical counselor, Dr. Greg Gifford. |
| 0:36.6 | Welcome back to Transform. My name is Dr. Greg Gifford, and I have the privilege of being your host. |
| 0:42.3 | And today I want to talk about when a friend starts to become more of ministry than an actual |
| 0:46.5 | peer-to-peer friendship. And it does really paint us to lose friends to neediness. And when I talk |
| 0:53.9 | about neediness, I do want to be candid that a friend |
| 0:57.7 | starts to be a taker and that type of friend can take too much for too long. And then we start to |
| 1:05.2 | wonder, well, do we really enjoy being around them? Number one, like, do we now have another dependent? |
| 1:13.0 | Like, how long do we stay committed to this friendship as opposed to saying, you know, like, |
| 1:18.4 | God bless them. They're at a needy season. This is something that I want to do my best to help kind |
| 1:25.4 | feel that gap. And you can harken back. Ooh, you guys like |
| 1:29.5 | that harken word, right? I don't know how you spell it harken. I think there's a C.H in there |
| 1:33.5 | somewhere, harchen. Harken back to a few episodes ago where we were talking about relationship |
| 1:38.6 | skills and honoring and serving one another being one of those relationship skills. There were just |
| 1:43.1 | a few nuggets in there, but I've had questions about what about when a friend |
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