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Don't just throw it out without serious consideration. A Proposal is RIZQ from Allah

Mufti Menk

Muslim Central

Society & Culture, Religion & Spirituality, Islam

4.83.1K Ratings

🗓️ 5 February 2021

⏱️ 3 minutes

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0:04.1

Assalamu Alaikum

0:06.3

Mashallah, a proposal has just come for your daughter and this young lad is not a wealthy person or perhaps he doesn't earn that much

0:15.4

Subhanallah, should I reject him because he doesn't earn that much?

0:19.8

The answer is no. Look at whether he is responsible. Look at his Dean and his Ahlak.

0:25.3

How rich were you when you married your wife the mother of the child whom you're talking about?

0:30.6

Subhanallah and how wealthy were your forefathers when they married?

0:34.6

Many of us myself included when we married we were still relying on our own parents

0:39.9

Subhanallah and later on Allah blessed us so let's not make a mistake by saying to ourselves

0:47.3

I will not allow my child to marry because this person doesn't have so much of wealth or

0:54.5

he doesn't have a job that I would like him to have. Subhanallah if he is responsible and he is a brilliant person

1:02.0

who is going to take care of your child and you know that he is very respectable

1:07.6

let it happen. Inshallah because of the responsibility the connection with Allah and because of the fact that they are very

1:14.9

respectable Allah will open their doors as a result of that union

1:19.4

In Yakkunu Fukarah you Hennihi Allahum in Fadlihi Allah says in Surah to Nur if they are poor

1:26.6

Allah will grant them independence or Allah will enrich them through his own virtue

1:33.0

How many have Allah and has Allah enriched Subhanallah?

1:37.3

Allah has enriched millions of people after their marriages. How many of us are so hypocritical where when we were marrying

1:45.1

people overlooked the poverty we were in or the financial standing we were upon

1:52.2

Even though it may not have been so grand but today the same people are not allowing brilliant

1:59.2

brilliant proposals to be accepted simply because there is a shortfall of a dollar or two

2:06.0

May Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala not make us from among those who worship material items

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