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Before Breakfast

Don't go for the least common denominator

Before Breakfast

iHeartPodcasts

Self-improvement, Education

4.51.5K Ratings

🗓️ 8 May 2023

⏱️ 7 minutes

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Summary

Consensus doesn't necessarily maximize happiness

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0:00.0

Deep in the mountains of Greece, the country's most-wanted man has been on the run for over a decade.

0:07.0

He's a bank robber, a kid napper, but to many Greeks, he's a hero.

0:13.7

His name is Vasili Spaliokostas, and we're on the trail of the man behind the men, a modern-day Robin Hood

0:20.3

who steals from the rich and gives to the poor.

0:22.9

A Miles Gray, listen to the Good Thief on the I Heart Radio app Apple podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts.

0:30.0

Welcome to Before Breakfast, a production of I Heart Radio.

0:38.0

Good morning. This is Laura.

0:43.0

Welcome to the Before Breakfast Podcast.

0:46.0

Today's tip is for when you are making a decision with family or friends.

0:52.0

Don't assume that consensus is best.

0:57.0

Instead of settling for the lowest common denominator, consider taking turns choosing

1:04.0

so that everybody gets their top choice from time to time.

1:09.0

So many of us, sometimes, find ourselves needing to make a collective decision about what everyone is going to do.

1:18.0

What's a movie that everyone can enjoy for family movie night?

1:23.0

Maybe you are trying to please your active toddler, your elementary schooler who's into Pixar, your middle schooler who's a diehard Harry Potter fan,

1:33.0

your mother-in-law who likes classic musicals, and your partner who just wants everyone to stay put for the entire time.

1:42.0

What book should you read for Book Club next month when members have different tastes and different schedules?

1:50.0

Where should you go for your monthly girls night out this month when people are coming from different directions and have a variety of tastes and budgets?

2:00.0

We've all been in situations like these where you may be able to reach a consensus through collective decision making.

2:08.0

But that process doesn't necessarily lead to an option that everyone is thrilled with, even if it is satisfactory to everyone.

2:18.0

A lot of people have a working assumption that consensus is the way to go, but that may not always be the best way to maximize happiness over time.

2:29.0

You may find yourself at the same inoffensive restaurant for every girl's night and watching Mary Poppins over and over again.

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