Hey everyone, it's your girl Breene Lee and welcome to the pep talk podcast where we have real, raw, relatable conversations with the pep talk you need.

You have the power to create your future with the choices that you made today.

What do you bring to the table? Baby, I am the table.

Fuck yourself a little bit more than that, ladies. Come on. Dust settles, queens don't. And don't forget,

know your worth and then attacks. Period. We're going to be talking about not putting your

life on hold for a man, a relationship, a person, anything.

Do not put your life on hold for a man. Let's level up and let's heal this year and beyond.

So where did this conversation come from? Let me tell you a little bit about me.

As you guys know, I was in a two-year relationship and I always had the idea of how my life was going to go in the relationship aspect.

So I lived at home with my mum, obviously. I always believed that I was going to

get married, move out into my marital home with my husband and start my life that way. That's what I

believe. That's what I thought was going to happen. And so I just lived like that. I had the

financial security to leave my mom's house a very long time ago.

Let's be honest. I could have got a place a very long time ago, including when I got in a

relationship with this person. So I had this idea, this dream that I wasn't going to get an

apartment, even though I had dreams of living in an apartment by myself. But I always thought,

let's make smart moves. Let's not get an apartment, if you can buy a

house.

I said to myself, okay, do you know what?

I'm not going to do that.

I'm going to stay put at home.

Even though my space was crowded, even though I felt uncomfortable, even though I felt

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