Listen, if men could be honest for 10 seconds, here's what they'd actually tell you.

They lie with their dicks, not their mouths, their dicks.

Their dicks have opinions, their dicks draft strategies, their dicks negotiate deals that their brains cannot afford.

A man can look you dead in the eyes and tell you that he is not looking for anything serious.

And then, proceed to treat you like his emotional support girlfriend.

Take you to a friend's wedding, take you on vacation with his family, spend every single

day and night with you for the next six weeks, all because his dick said, keep her around

because she seems convenient. Keep her around because she seems convenient, keep

around because it's just something to do. And you, meanwhile, are out here interpreting every

single mixed signal like it's a riddle from the universe. Girl, it's not a riddle. It's just

logistics. Men do not pursue you because they are obsessed with you. Sorry, they pursue you because their dick nominated you for a temporary position and you did not

decline the offer.

You didn't ask any questions.

You just said, okay, if he just keeps showing up, then I'll just go along with it.

No.

You want to know how a man decides whether you're a fling or a future?

Well, here's a scientific formula, baby.

If you let him skip steps, he will. If you don't, he won't. Men will always see how far you will go.

Women set the standards always, and men follow. It is not romantic. It's not spiritual. It's not your energy. It is behavioral

economics with horny lighting. Men categorize you before you have sex with them, not after,

but sex cements the role that you accepted. If you lead with intimacy, he will file you under

fun. If you lead with standards, he will file you under fun.

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