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Psychology In Seattle Podcast

Domestic Violence on Reality TV

Psychology In Seattle Podcast

Kirk Honda

Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.51.3K Ratings

🗓️ 19 July 2023

⏱️ 122 minutes

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Summary

Dr Kirk Honda reacts to a video published by Tiff, from Ultimatum Queer Love, in which they disclose a history of domestic violence.

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00:00 Intro to Tiff & Mildred's situation

02:14 Mutual abuse, reactivity & attachment securities

34:45 Tiff's trial marriage & multi-problem families

42:44 Victimizing Aussie & boundaries

1:05:26 The power of the word abuse & gaining control

1:33:26 The cycle of abuse


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July 19, 2023

The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®


Trigger Warning: This episode may include topics such as assault, trauma, and discrimination. If necessary, listeners are encouraged to refrain from listening and care for their safety and well-being.

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Hey, dessert listeners.

0:01.0

Today's episode is actually an audio version

0:04.2

of a video that I posted on YouTube a little bit ago.

0:08.1

Sometimes when I make a video for the YouTube channel,

0:10.6

I think that it would be good to also share

0:14.0

with the audio podcast listeners.

0:17.4

So in this episode, I'm talking about intimate partner violence.

0:20.1

Of course, it carries with it a pretty heavy trigger warning.

0:23.7

There's in graphic details,

0:25.3

but if you have any sort of trauma, reactivity,

0:28.1

PTSD included related to intimate partner violence

0:31.6

or domestic violence,

0:32.9

then you should be careful listening to this episode

0:35.8

because it's a lot of talking about it.

0:38.2

So for those of you who watched Ultimatum Queer Love,

0:41.6

then you know who TIFF is,

0:43.4

and you might have even watched this video

0:45.6

when I posted it on YouTube.

0:47.2

For those of you who don't know the reality TV show

0:50.2

called Ultimatum Queer Love,

0:52.4

then let me just give some background.

0:54.4

So there's a reality TV show called Ultimatum,

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