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Subject, does he have a problem, or am I the problem? Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm married to a

wonderful man that is 13 years older than I am.

He is my everything, everything. And in the beginning of our marriage, we were very active and

traveled a lot. Now it's like he settled into being old and boring, and I can barely get him to

take a walk with me. I asked him if he was depressed

and advised him to see a doctor. He went to the doctor and got a clean bill of health. We used to

enjoy a martini in the evening to unwind and reconnect, but lately he's turned to drinking

brown liquor and I've noticed a change in him. He is grumpier now, and he snores

like a wild man in the bed. I have to admit that his sex game is better if he's had the brown

liquor, but right afterwards, he passes out. My biggest problem with him is kind of embarrassing,

and I don't know how to handle it. He's been

urinating in his sleep and the smell of the brown liquor has saturated our mattress and reeks

throughout our bedroom. At first it would be just a few drops and the more he drank in the

evening, the more he'd urinate in his sleep.

He would get up like nothing was wrong in the next morning, and I wouldn't say a word in case he was already ashamed.

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