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Ask Pastor John

Does Happiness Require Apathy to Others’ Sorrows?

Ask Pastor John

Desiring God

Christianity, Pastor, John Piper, Theology, Ask, Religion & Spirituality/christianity, Desiring God, 163859, Religion & Spirituality, Questions

4.94.1K Ratings

🗓️ 24 November 2014

⏱️ 9 minutes

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Summary

Sorrow and suffering make up daily life across the world. So what does it look like for Christians to be both happy and sorrowful?

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0:00.0

Welcome to a new week on the Ask Pastor John podcast.

0:08.0

We head into Thanksgiving in a few days in Pastor John.

0:11.9

There was recently a discussion online among non-Christian philosophers and it started out

0:16.6

with an old Woody Allen line he once said in a movie.

0:19.6

He said this, if one guy is starving someplace, it puts a cramp in my evening.

0:27.2

Which raises this question, can a person truly experience happiness without ignorance and

0:32.8

apathy of the suffering of others?

0:36.3

To be completely insensitive to suffering in this world is to be a sociopath.

0:41.8

To be completely sensitive to the suffering of others, you would pretty much die of grief

0:46.6

from the collective suffering of the world.

0:49.4

So if empathy means you cannot enjoy dinner with a starving child staring at you near

0:54.7

the dinner table, yet your dinner can resume normally if that starving child exists behind

0:59.9

a wall.

1:01.6

Does it seem that ignorance then is an important requisite for happiness?

1:06.4

So here's the question, Pastor John.

1:08.8

Does my happiness require ignorance or even apathy with the suffering of others?

1:15.1

I doubt that I have a fully satisfying answer to this even for myself and I'm not sure

1:22.6

there is a theoretically satisfying answer that deals in quantities of knowledge and apathy

1:31.6

and happiness.

1:33.1

I suspect that the answer to this is found in becoming a kind of person in the image

1:41.9

of Christ who learns how best to love within the limitations in this world of suffering.

1:52.2

Having said, I'm not sure there is an answer, here's my best effort to say something helpful,

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