Does God Have One Person Out There For Me To Marry? 3 Things You Need To Know About The One

Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast

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Talk Radio, Christianity, Default, Religion & Spirituality

4.8 • 808 Ratings

🗓️ 16 October 2018

⏱️ 14 minutes

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Summary

Is there such a thing as “the one”? Do you believe that there’s only one person out there for you to marry? And if so, how does that impact your relationship choices? Today I’m talking through this issue, and telling you all about how my husband and I had completely different experiences when we first met. At the end of the day, whether you take my side, or my husband’s side on the issue – it doesn’t really matter, because no matter what you believe about the one, you’ve still got to do the work of getting yourself in a healthy relationship. 3 Things You Need To Know About Finding The One No matter what your views about the one, you need to check out this mini-episode and find out three key things to remember when it comes to “finding the one”. Tune in to Episode 015 of the Love + Relationships Podcast, to find out what they are! SUBSCRIBE AND LISTEN ON iTUNES BY CLICKING HERE Additional Ways To Listen: STITCHER or SPOTIFY Want to be on the Love + Relationships Podcast? Go to truelovedates.com/loveandrelationships/ to submit your question and learn more. Resources Mentioned on the Love + Relationships Podcast and Additional Show Notes: If you liked this episode, check out this article: You Don’t Find the One, You Choose The One Enjoyed this episode of the podcast? Check out this episode about Sex Drive and The Single Life: Controlling Your Desires Before They Control You Dig Deeper with some scripture for healthy relationships: Proverbs 31:10-31, 18:22, 14:1, 12:4; 1 Timothy 5:14; 1 Peter 3:1-6). Get busy learning what you need to know about healthy singleness, dating, and marriage. Check out Choosing Marriage: Why It Has To Start With We > Me or True Love Dates: Your Indispensable Guide to Finding the Love of Your Life. And check out this awesome feature article about TrueLoveDates.com and Choosing Marriage at DatingNews.com DEBRA FILETA is a Licensed Professional Counselor, national speaker, relationship expert, and author of Choosing Marriage and True Love Dates. She’s also the host of the hotline style Love + Relationships Podcast. Her popular relationship advice blog, TrueLoveDates.com, reaches millions of people with the message of healthy relationships. Connect with her on Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	Hey friends, welcome back to the love and relationships podcast. I'm your host, Deborah Felida,
0:23.8	and I'm so excited to have the chance to have these candid conversations with you about love,
0:29.3	sex, dating, singleness, and marriage. For those of you who don't know me, or if you're tuning in
0:34.3	for the first time, I'm a licensed professional counselor specializing
0:38.0	in relationship issues. I also run the Relationship Advice blog, TrueLovDates.com, reaching millions
0:44.6	of people with the message of healthy relationships. And as you'll find out about me,
0:49.6	that's something I'm really passionate about. If you've tuned into this podcast for a while, you know that
0:54.9	it's generally a hotline style podcast, meaning people call in with the relationship questions and we
1:00.3	talk through them on the show. But because I've received so many of your questions, I decided I needed
1:07.2	to do these little mini episodes where I'll be taking the questions that you've sent my way via email or voice memo, and I'll be answering them in short, practical, bite-sized answers in these mini episodes.
1:20.2	If you have a question that you want me to answer on the show, make sure to send it via email or voice memo to Deborah at true lovedates.com.
1:28.9	And I'll do my best to get it answered on one of the episodes.
1:31.9	So let's get started.
1:38.5	So one of the questions I get asked often is, do you believe that there is such thing as the one? Do you believe that there's only
1:50.3	one person out there for you to marry? And what does that look like? This is an interesting
1:56.8	question and one that I've actually been thinking through probably since I was a young adult,
2:03.5	a single young adult, because I think I was raised to believe that there is just one person
2:10.7	out there for you. And it's funny because when my husband and I met, we had very different experiences when it comes
2:19.5	to our first impressions, our first experiences with meeting each other. So John and I met at this
2:26.5	conference and we walk in to this room, you know, where a bunch of people were interacting.
2:31.3	And he remembers looking at me from across the room and he just felt like
2:37.7	something in him was just like drawn to me. And, you know, obviously as we look back and
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