Do You Think I'm Special? The Price of Perfectionism & Betrayal with Kaitlyn Bristowe
Daddy Issues with Violet Benson
Violet Benson
4.7 • 4.2K Ratings
🗓️ 13 June 2024
⏱️ 49 minutes
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Summary
Ever been told you're special as a kid and now you're a hot mess of perfectionism and OCD? Welcome to the club! In this laugh-out-loud yet deeply relatable episode, Violet Benson gets real with Kaitlyn Bristowe about the rollercoaster ride of wanting to be chosen, fear of aging, and betrayal.
In today's episode, we discuss:
- The Upsides and Downslides of Being Told You're Special as a kid: What it looks like as an adult in your relationships and work.
- Body Dysmorphia & Fear of Aging: Attaching worth to looks and struggling with the inevitable.
- Perfectionism & OCD: The constant battle for everything to be 'just right.'
- Mummy Issues: Deep dives into childhood wounds
- The Hoffman Process: A therapy treatment that you might want to consider
- Competitiveness with Your Partner: What's missing?
- Relationship Betrayals: Kaitlyn spills never before discussed tea on her past relationship(s), why she felt betrayed, and the fears that linger on.
And so much more. Listen now for a mix of laughs, insights, and 'aha' moments!
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| 0:00.0 | What's the best advice you've ever gone? |
| 0:02.0 | Kurt Cobain, nirvana, I'd rather be hated for who I am than loved for somebody I'm not. |
| 0:07.0 | What's the worst advice you've ever gone? |
| 0:09.0 | Give blow jobs to make it in Hollywood. |
| 0:11.0 | I just get to a file events in your favorite meme queen and the big sit you didn't ask for, |
| 0:17.0 | but see you know, welcome to Almost Adulting. Are you ready? |
| 0:27.0 | Are you ready? And welcome to a brand new almost adulting, your number one destination for |
| 0:31.0 | personal growth, dating, and mental health infused with |
| 0:33.6 | psychology, expert studies, and scientific research. I am violetta, your big |
| 0:37.8 | and sister ready to dish out about tough love. |
| 0:47.0 | Today, guests that I have, one of my favorite people right now. She's the best. |
| 0:48.0 | I've also been her podcast. |
| 0:50.0 | If the episode's out, |
| 0:51.0 | that you guys should definitely check it out. |
| 0:52.0 | It is Kaylin Bristow. |
| 0:53.6 | She is season 11 Bachelorette off the Vine podcast, |
| 0:57.3 | host, which I'm also on, |
| 0:58.9 | winner of Dancing with the Stars, season 29. |
| 1:01.5 | She's also the owner of Spade and Sparrow's wine, which we are currently drinking. |
| 1:07.0 | Cheers. |
| 1:08.0 | Thank you for having me on. |
| 1:09.0 | Of course. |
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