Welcome to Let It Be Easy with Susie Moore.

Are you someone who saves other people?

I'm guessing to some degree you might be.

Maybe out of pure love, generosity, caring, gorgeous, things.

I love to help others.

I live to help others.

My whole career is based on helping elevate others.

And still, I know that there is a big tendency out there to save others,

to almost feel responsible for them and in some cases even to bail them out.

I've been there. I've been there personally, I've observed this many times and it can feel really tricky

it can feel tricky because there's almost not really a line the line is

invisible that's constantly moving when it comes to how we help and serve others.

And I've created healthy, pretty healthy in my opinion, boundaries around this now, but helping

others, saving others, bailing them out in some cases you have to look at it

and and think you know in fact how much am I actually helping?

When I was growing up in one of the shelters that I lived in,

one of the women had a son who was over the age of 18

so he couldn't come to the shelter shelter he couldn't be part of our lives

there living there and he was dealing with some addiction issues and his mom to the

best of his extent would bail him out however she could write with money with

time setting up with places that he could potentially live with people that she

knew and she was at the end of the line.

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