Welcome to the Bear Marriage Podcast. I'm Sheila Ray Gregg. We're from to Love Honor

and Vacuum.com when we like to talk about how to make marriage a passionate adventure and not just a giant to-do list.

And on the last Thursday of every month, I like to speak more particular to the guys.

I mean, women, you are free to to listen you're going to find this one

entertaining to you but I like to have a special message for guys so I have got my

husband Keith on with me today everybody and we're going to do something fun

okay I'm gonna kind of put you on the spot. Okay. I'm going to ask you to think like a woman. Oh, wow, okay. Yeah.

That'll be a challenge. One of the things is this because I said that in my little post that I've been reading your book like trying to think about it as a woman?

Yeah, well that was very helpful. I thought that was really great.

One of the things that men often talked to us about from our book the Great Sex Rescue is that they were never

taught these messages and so they wonder was my wife really taught this like are

you making too big a deal out of something right because what we what we did for the Great Sex Rescue,

here's the book I will hold it up for those of you watching on YouTube.

There it is, The Great Sex Rescue,

was we surveyed 20,000 women.

We asked them about their sex lives, their marital satisfaction, and then we

asked whether or not they had been taught and whether or not they believed a number of

evangelical teachings that are quite prevalent about marriage and sex.

And we found that there were quite a few of those beliefs that really did have negative impacts

on women's sex lives.

But then men come around and say, yeah, but I have never heard this. I have

to go to church my whole life. I've been an evangelical my whole life. I have

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