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Do You Have This Too? | Practice Gentleness Instead of Anger

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Education, 694393, Daily Stoic, Society & Culture, Stoic, Stoicism, Self-improvement, Business, Stoic Philosophy, Philosophy, Ryan Holiday

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🗓️ 15 July 2025

⏱️ 12 minutes

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Summary

There was gruffness to the Stoics. A wariness of getting too close or too attached, lest your heart be broken by fortune. But does that mean the Stoics were unfeeling?


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0:00.0

Welcome to the Daily Stoic Podcast, where each day we bring you a stoic-inspired meditation

0:11.7

designed to help you find strength and insight and wisdom into everyday life.

0:18.8

Each one of these episodes is based on the 2,000-year-old philosophy that has guided some of

0:24.2

history's greatest men and women to help you learn from them, to follow in their example,

0:33.0

and to start your day off with a little dose of courage and discipline and justice and wisdom.

0:40.3

For more, visitdailystoic.com.

0:43.0

Do you have this, too?

0:58.2

They were tough.

0:59.5

They knew that life was tough.

1:01.2

They knew that a fragile person would not survive.

1:04.3

They also knew back in the days of ancient Rome that life was fragile,

1:09.0

that even tough people could be cut down by disease or events

1:13.6

or a tyrant. So yeah, there was a gruffness to the Stoics, a wariness of getting too close or

1:20.2

too attached, lest your heart be broken by fortune. But does this mean that the Stoics were

1:26.4

unfeeling, utterly disconnected, harsh, and invulnerable?

1:30.2

Hardly.

1:31.1

In his fascinating biography of Marcus Aurelius carried at the painted porch, this is the book

1:36.1

by Donald Robertson, Donald takes pains to note a virtue exhibited by Marcus' incredible mother,

1:43.5

Lucilla, what he refers to as her natural affection.

1:48.1

While the mothers of many emperors before him were ambitious and cruel, Marcus' mother was

1:53.1

kind and generous and genuinely loved by her children. Marcus, Donald Wright, came to agree with

2:00.0

Fronto, his rhetoric teacher, that generally speaking, those among us who are called patricians are rather deficient in precisely this quality.

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