I think we all always had in the back of our brains we never had like a word for it.

But there's something to be said about little things or big things that people do that just break.

They shatter your perception of that person in your mind and you can never look at them the same again.

It's a horrible thing kind of because you know it's not really anything that something does intentionally most of the time.

It could be literally a mole on someone's toe. It could be the way someone chooses their food.

You know something that they might not even be aware of.

Well, I would hope that they're aware of the moles on their body in case they become cancerous.

But overall, it's scary to think about how you could even have an IK.

There could be something that you do or a physical feature of you that is disgusting to someone else.

You know we like to think like you know most strangers will just like treat us or even our friends or romantic partners will you know give us the benefit of the doubt for some things or not be overly critical of our mannerisms.

But I think through internet discourse and being online and the phenomenon of X becoming like a cultural thing we're waking up.

We are becoming woke.

So I asked on my Instagram at Ben of the Week for your guys is X that you have in other people.

This could be for friends. This could be for relationships.

I guess that's the the two things you can have with humans. I'd strangers.

Let's let's say that I really can't think of any other groups of people like motherfuckers are either your friend a family member or stranger.

I or an I guess an alien would be a stranger.

But we're going to get right into it. Y'all sent me some really crazy ones and I have a lot of thoughts on them.

We'll start with some easy ones. This one is from Jeanette.

Jeanette says when people beat box.

This is absolutely not a fucking IK.

That's actually an IK that you would say beatboxing as an IK because beatboxing is going to come back like I know I didn't predict it.

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