And I think that another way to kind of get over and get confident is to when you walk into a room or when you walk into a place

Is to not jump to right ahead to picking people apart and finding the problems

But to but to find the kindness and the people and watch how your whole attitude shifts because if you walk in

Because what you're really doing is knocking them down so you feel more confident

Oh

Welcome to the mom cheese podcast. Oh my god you guys so I've been feeling like you know, okay

I'm gonna be totally honest here with a gut so much to cover right now

Number one, I was thinking like so often we

Look everyone around us and we're like oh my god. They're doing so amazing. They're doing so well and

Recently we had reached out to someone to do some work for us and

Our the person was like they passed and I was like wait, we're paying them how do they what are they passing?

I'm like why like what's the pass on and I began to think I was like I

Was like wait for a minute. I was like

Is this us like what are they looking at us and being like no? They're done. They're like

Mom the mom world is like so overdone. I really began to go through that thinking about I feel yours to that

Okay, I did it again. Yeah, I know and then I was like but really we're just we got to stay in our own lane and figure out exactly

Why we are what we do because

So much of what we do we never stop and think about what we've accomplished

No, you know what I mean like we've never stopped and been like

Wow, we've really it's even if we say it. I can't feel it

Yeah, I don't know. Maybe that's a thing. I mean if you can't feel it and I can't feel it

Maybe a lot of people can't feel it but like what's the we don't have a perception of ourselves

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