Do you know what I get this sentiment from women a lot of the time that like you've been let down like the mandam have let you got down bare times like I just get that like I don't know the sense when women is just like when they think of men is I'm like but you know what's different is you know the man there We've been let down a lot as well, you know? Yeah, eight. Please. But you see those stories. But you see those stories. Yeah. So I've got a friend, yeah. Yeah, eight. I've got a friend. He's a bit older than me, right? He goes back to the same story of some girl from college. The last time I was

like, bro, let it go. It was in college. Like, you've gone through so many things with women since then.

How much guys have you met that I've talked like that? A few. You'd be surprised. A few.

Put your mouth back down. I don't know.

You need to check this stye sticks. Yeah. You check the stye sticks for that one. Nah, I'm trying, no, I'm really, I don't know if it seems like it now, but I'm really trying to be positive about men. But what's mad? Yeah. But you see the man then what? Let me get the straight. Yeah.

So, this guy, for example, had his heartbroken in college.

Instead of us to reinforce the help he needs to say, do you know, it's all right to be hurt.

But my bro, it's time to move on.

You're saying it's college. It's let go. It's like, nah. Because remember off again, if he was vulnerable, mad vulnerable, you see with men, the difference with men and women, I think, is that men tend to, we don't show our vulnerability often. Because we haven't grown up like that. We don't, it's very new to us anyway to be vulnerable.

Do I'm saying?

So when we do show it and it gets rubbish, it is a kick in the teeth.

You ain't never seen that again.

Whereas women, like, women tend to be vulnerable off the jump.

I'll add to this.

Because me saying, oh my God, come on, because that's my friend. And of course, I've heard this story many times. And then also, for me, as a psychotherapist, I try to help him break it down. As a who? As a who? As a therapist. Is that your, oh, seriously? Yeah. I'm training, like, I've got one more year. Oh, dope. Yeah. Thank laugh. I thought you were lying. No, seriously. You don't know what people did, I thought it was like a social media thing like as a social, no, as a psycho friend, obviously on social, I look at, I'm thinking, no. I was never. I work in childhood adolescent mental health. Oh, man. My message, I said I was coming from uni. So I had a placement today, so we were seeing patients. Oh, my. So, yeah. And especially, like, as I'm learning about relationships, like, the influences of gender and, like, social impact and things like that, I have tried to help him break him down, but he's very stuck on, no, it hurt me. And which is fine, because

I see this in my day-to-day practice, a lot of people, like, they don't move on from things

at all. They really stick with that hurt. Even me, myself. And a lot of part, like, a big part

of psychotherapy is you have to use yourself. You have to be able to use yourself. I can't lie.

I can bring up something

from when I was in year seven and you will hear that I'm still upset about it, but I have to find a way

to actually work around it. So, especially for men, you're right. Like a lot of men, they're not very

vulnerable, but me, when I work with men and young boys that's one thing I

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