Hi my name is Lewis Howes and welcome to the Daily Motivation Show.

Today's episode is designed to help you improve the quality of your relationships.

When your relationships with loved ones and yourself are on good terms,

everything else around you feels greater too.

That's why I want to give you the tools to deepen your relationships.

The experience of a love story, the word story is important is important, right? So the story of love is a story that I can fall in love with all kinds of people, with whom I would never live a life with,

that we come from completely different worlds.

We have different aspirations, different values, but in the midst of that something very precious

unfolds between us in a very small container that is deeply intimate and often deeply erotic.

It doesn't need how do we negotiate children, in-laws, economics, careers,

the political environment around us, all of that.

We don't have to talk about any of this.

In that beautiful container of intimacy and erotic intimacy

lives a love story.

A life story is a negotiation with the whole world. A life story

first of all goes through a developmental arc. I may meet you in my 20s and

here I am in my 40s 50 so it's a developmental

arc it exists over time it needs to include change it needs to include the addition

and subtraction of new people, the death of people and the birth of people sometimes.

It needs to include how we negotiate with all our friends. A love story can live alone in a little room

without seeing anybody you know because it feeds on itself very very beautifully but a life story must include other people a social circle a

community you know, activities, passions, hobbies, careers,

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