4.8 • 636 Ratings
🗓️ 28 September 2011
⏱️ 29 minutes
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0:00.0 | Welcome back, Zen Parenting Radio. I'm not going to say what number it is again. My name is Todd Adams. |
0:11.3 | This is Kathy Adams. And today we are going to talk about why you should never tell your kids how smart they are. |
0:17.7 | Yeah. How's that for a lead? That's a good way to introduce it because there's some truth to that, but also please |
0:23.6 | stay tuned because it's not what you think. |
0:25.4 | Yeah, it's not what you think. |
0:26.7 | So we were going to talk about something completely different, and I threw |
0:29.5 | your curveball this morning. |
0:30.6 | We've come up with two different topics that with, let's talk about why you shouldn't praise your children or tell them that they're smart. |
0:39.5 | So I was on the computer this morning and there's another cough. |
0:42.9 | Sorry, I had to clear my throat. |
0:44.2 | I should have done that before we started. |
0:45.7 | Sorry, it happens. |
0:47.5 | There's a YouTube clip of this lady who did this study and she had nine-year-olds and 10-year-old kids. |
0:54.1 | And bear with me for a second because it |
0:56.6 | might take me just a minute to explain she divided these kids into two groups and they were |
1:01.7 | supposed to construct these puzzles and they started both groups off with easy puzzles and then |
1:07.8 | after they complete an easy puzzle one group group, the facilitator of that group, |
1:13.3 | said about how smart they were for completing that puzzle. |
1:16.6 | So he told the kids they were smart. |
1:18.1 | Right. |
1:18.4 | And the other group, they said, wow, they praised the effort instead of the result. |
1:24.0 | Way to work through that or a good effort. |
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