You are responsible for your life and if you're sitting around waiting on somebody to save you, to fix you, to even help you, you are wasting your time because only you have the power to take responsibility to move your life forward.

Nobody is gonna cry. move your life forward.

Nobody is going to cry for you, they have their own tears.

One thing I'm positive about is how ROI negative complaining is and how much I'm trying to suffocate the practice of it.

I really have been fascinated by people that have changed their mindset into understanding

that everything that is not going well right now is their fault. It has been

remarkably important to me in understanding that everything that I'm not

happy about is on me. It's a remarkably interesting brain twist. The amount of

energy spent on things that you can't

control versus being accountable to what you can control has been a huge

separator for me in the last four or five years as I've dug deep.

I always tell people the most valuable lesson I got from my mentor Jim Roan

was I asked my father were two jobs. We were always broke. We had no money for food and we lived in a community we moved to which was I thought they were all rich and we were on the other side of the tracks.

It was lower middle class but compared to where we lived before these people seemed rich compared to us.

And I just didn't understand it. but before these people seem rich compared to us.

And I just didn't understand it.

And Jim said to me, Tony, it's not about the value of your soul.

It's about the value of you in the marketplace.

And your father's skills are not that valuable.

So one said we have two primary choices in life. We can either accept conditions as they

exist or we can take the responsibility to change them.

See a lot of people want to exempt themselves from taking responsibility.

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