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One of the things that I love to get couples to focus on is expressing gratitude for each other.

It's super fast, it's free, it's easy, it feels good to give and to receive.

So one of the big problems that people do is they feel so embarrassed and nervous to talk about sex

that they wait until there's some sort of problem. Have you heard of

chore play? Chore play? Chore play. Is this a band? No, it's a, so it's like for play, but you're

doing chores as foreplay. So like... His love life is talked about all over the internet. He was on

dancing with the stars, despite not being able to dance. He once wrangled a kangaroo

with his bare hands. He did what? He's your favorite reality TV fuckboy reformed. He can make a woman

fall in love at first sight. He is Harry Jousey, boyfriend material. Welcome back, you naughty

little pelicans. I hope you're feeling amazing. I hope you're ready for a great episode. Today, we are joined by a licensed psychotherapist, which I actually don't know what that means. You have over 20 years experience in sex therapy. Vanessa, so nice to me. Thank you for coming along.

Thanks for having me. I'm so excited to be here. How do you get 20 years in sex therapy? What's going on? How does that work? I started in the

field when I was 18. I knew that I wanted to be a sex therapist from very young. And so I started

doing research projects, started studying it. So yeah. Wait, how does, how does, you're 18, like, I'm really interested in learning everything about this.

So, like, how did that start?

Yeah, so the initial idea for me actually came from my parents trying to give me the talk.

Oh, right.

Did you get a version of the talk?

Mine wasn't good.

Mine was not good either.

Yeah, my dad, it was just like him with the cucumber trying to put a condomal in that.

I was like, they get that big?

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