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Do I Need to Love Myself More?

Ask Pastor John

Desiring God

John Piper, Unknown, 163859, Pastor, Ask, Theology, Desiring God, Religion & Spirituality/christianity, Christianity, Religion & Spirituality, Questions

4.83.8K Ratings

🗓️ 31 May 2019

⏱️ 11 minutes

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Summary

Jesus said we should love our neighbors as ourselves. How is this kind of self-love different from the mantra we hear in advertising and social media?

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0:00.0

Well, self-love is a loud mantra in our culture that echoes in our advertising and is on

0:09.5

repeat in our social media feeds.

0:12.6

Self-love is becoming inseparable from our cultural image in America.

0:17.7

Self-love is what we do.

0:19.4

So do we need to learn to love ourselves more?

0:21.7

It's a question from a perceptive teen listener to the podcast.

0:25.7

Hi, Pastor John.

0:26.7

My name is Danielle.

0:27.7

I'm currently in high school.

0:28.9

I've heard lots of variations on the love yourself mantra, constantly spoken to young men

0:34.3

and women like me.

0:36.2

We're told to love our personalities, our own skin, our bodies, and our choices.

0:40.6

This seems like an extremely secular worldview, yet the Bible says to love your neighbor as

0:45.6

yourself.

0:46.6

So here's my question for you.

0:48.9

Should we love ourselves?

0:50.6

Is this something we need to be mindful of?

0:52.7

Or is it an assumed, inborn inclination?

0:55.9

What does the Bible say, Pastor John, about self-love?

1:00.1

So let's start by talking about the command, love your neighbor as you love yourself,

1:07.1

which Jesus said was the second greatest commandment after love God with all your heart, soul,

1:13.9

mind, and strength, and which both Jesus and Paul said was the fulfilling of the whole

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