Do I Have Dad Wounds? with Jonathan Pokluda

Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast

Debra Fileta, M.A., LPC and Creator of TrueLoveDates.com

Self-improvement, Relationships, Education, Religion & Spirituality, Christianity, Society & Culture

4.9 • 757 Ratings

🗓️ 21 May 2024

⏱️ 55 minutes

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Today on the podcast, I have a favorite friend back on for a SECOND on-air session, JP Pokluda!! In our initial conversation, JP and I talk through some of his challenges with having too much on his plate and moving into a season of burnout (listen to the conversation here). In that conversation, I asked if he had ever dug into his past history— and how it might be impacting what he does in the present. Today on the podcast, we jump into part two of the conversation and I ask him a few questions to consider from his past, and specifically his relationship with his dad and how that may have shaped his beliefs. Does he have father wounds that he needs to deal with? What could that look like? How may have his relationship with his father shaped his beliefs and motivations? No matter what type of past we come from, it’s important for us to look back and assess exactly how our past has influenced & shaped our beliefs and our identity. Tune in to my conversation with JP Pokluda! Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast Extras: The Debra Fileta Counselors Network: Book a counseling session at the Debra Fileta Counselors Network and get started on your healing journey from the inside out TODAY! DEBRA FILETA is a Licensed Professional Counselor, national speaker, bestselling author, relationship expert, and founder of the Debra Fileta Counselors Network. She’s written six books including Choosing Marriage,True Love Dates, Love In Every Season,Are You Really OK?, Married Sex, and RESET. She’s also the host of Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast (formerly the Love + Relationships Podcast) where she facilitates on-air authentic counseling-style sessions. Her popular relationship advice blog, TrueLoveDates.com, reaches millions of people with the message of healthy relationships. Connect with her on Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter or book an online session with her or someone from her team today! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:32.9	I remember one day I had a tingling sensation in my head and it was the night after I couldn't sleep and then I couldn't sleep.
0:41.3	And then all of a sudden my heart starts beating differently.
0:44.3	And then it just felt like I would jump out of bed and these panic attacks.
0:48.3	And it felt like there was just like this low hum of, man, everything is not okay.
0:53.3	And I didn't know how to fix it and then
0:55.9	ended up in the hospital. All of that happened pretty fast. I mean, in a seven-day period
1:01.5	where I was even just trying to find words for it.
1:10.6	Are you ready to talk to me?
1:12.7	My name is Deborah Felita and I'm a licensed professional counselor, national speaker,
1:17.8	and author.
1:18.8	Through my blog, books, and podcast, I have the privilege of helping millions of people get
1:23.7	healthy mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and relationally.
1:28.1	The purpose of this podcast is to have on-air, authentic, counseling-style sessions where we talk
1:35.1	about how people are really doing and give my guests and callers an opportunity to talk to me
1:40.9	as a licensed professional counselor. Each of these episodes is meant to show you
1:45.9	that we are all on the journey of healing, mentally, emotionally, spiritually and relationally,
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