I get this so many times with divorce being so normal now in the world, at least in my

world in the US, if you're a kid or maybe you grew up this way or maybe you're the parent

of a kid, how do you choose whether you're going to live with mom or dad? So obviously you

have to be a certain age if you're a kid, but if the parent is trying to decide, how do

you choose who goes with who? You know, most of you would say, everyone goes with the mother,

right? But how does that affect the kid in the long term? And then if you're the kid and

you're old enough to pick, depending on the state you're in, do you get resentment? Say

you pick the mother, do you get resentment from the father and then the father's family? And

if you pick the father, it's the same way with the mother. And then how do you handle holidays

together? And what happens if you're invited to a Christmas party and your mother is not, you're

invited to your father's Christmas party and your mother's not invited or vice versa? And what do

you do? And how do you try to mend that? And how does that affect your life and how you raise

your own family when you have one? It's such a terrible thought, but it's such a common issue

with people. So we're going to dive into that. I got my good buddy, Bernie, with me. So we're

going to answer a lot of questions, including that one, kind of really good in depth. And I always

look at these questions from you guys. It's like we're sitting around a campfire together. And

how you say, hey, man, I got this thought. I wanted to run by it, but you know, I had to pick

my mother when my parents got into force and my dad hates me for it. What do I do? It's like we're

just sitting around a campfire and I would answer, you know, like you're my buddy. If you have a

question, any question for me, email GrangerSmithPodcast at gmail.com. It could be about anything,

could be music related, tour related, life related, relationship related, career related,

whatever it might be, what we'll dig into it. I have to say before we start this podcast too,

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