Divorce Him: Emily Nagoski
Hot and Bothered
Not Sorry Productions
0.0 • 0 Ratings
🗓️ 20 August 2019
⏱️ 28 minutes
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Summary
That’s right! You work on your writing, we’ll work on other people’s love lives!
This week, Vanessa and friend Julia Argy offer their support and unsolicited advice to an especially distraught Redditor wondering what to do with a husband who claims he’s no longer sexually attracted to her because of her past trauma.
In addition to the obvious answer (divorce him!), Vanessa turns to sex educator and NYT best-selling author Emily Nagoski to better understand the nuances around attraction, sexual connection, and how to live confidently and joyfully in our bodies.
Don’t forget to check out Emily’s new book, Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle https://www.amazon.com/Come-You-Are-Surprising-Transform/dp/1476762090
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| 0:00.0 | Spoke Media. Not Sorry Productions. |
| 0:07.0 | Hi Julia, Hi Julia, |
| 0:12.6 | Hi Vanessa, how are you? |
| 0:14.3 | I'm good. |
| 0:15.0 | You're looking especially clean today. |
| 0:17.1 | I just showered. |
| 0:18.0 | My hair is still drying. |
| 0:19.1 | Uh, that's what it is. |
| 0:20.9 | It's a big difference. |
| 0:22.1 | Thank you. It'd been a long time so welcome |
| 0:26.7 | everybody to hot and bothered and this segment that we lovingly call divorce |
| 0:32.3 | him divorce him. |
| 0:33.0 | Divorce him. |
| 0:34.0 | Okay, so let's solve this person's love life. |
| 0:43.0 | My fiance, 28 year old male, thinks PTSD is affecting his attraction to me 28 year old female. |
| 0:51.0 | I seem to have a very unique problem with my relationship. I find it very hard to find advice about it. |
| 0:55.6 | I've been trying to deal with it on my own for years, but I have fallen into a very deep depression and feel at the end of my rope. |
| 1:03.0 | I've been with my fiance for five years. |
| 1:05.0 | We have two kids and one of them is only three. |
| 1:08.3 | I wouldn't be trying so hard to make this work if it weren't for them, |
| 1:11.4 | but he's a great dad, and I would endure nearly anything to keep our family together. |
| 1:17.0 | That said, I have been enduring so very much. |
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