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Hi, I'm Monica Packer from About Progress, and this is a hug and a kick, a series where I share a short excerpt from my extensive podcast archives, one carefully selected to give you the validation and or motivation you need for the weekend.

Okay. you need for the weekend. Overwhelm isn't having too much to do.

It's not knowing where to start.

Because our list is so long,

because we have so many things that we're trying to do,

we don't know where to begin.

And we sit there and we think we're doing what we want to do, but we're not to do, we don't know where to begin. And we sit there and we

think we're doing what we want to do, but we're not really beginning where we want to begin.

And we're not starting on the task that we really want to do to move us forward.

So is it is it that people aren't taking the time? Well, I'm sure a lot of people are writing

lists. So it's not about writing lists, although sometimes people totally don't. A lot of times I'm just flying by the seat of my pants and doing what's right in front of me instead of what is most purposeful. So maybe a list is a good place to start, but, yeah, what were you going to say? Well, I'll be honest. Yeah. I don't believe in the to do list.

Okay. And I think that's the biggest problem is most people think I'm making a to do list. So surely I'm productive, right?

Surely I have an idea of what I need to get done. But to do lists, honestly, don't work. And so I tell people, talk the to do list because really what you need to do is write a priority list.

Oh, okay. And the reason why it's do list doesn't work is because usually, as I mentioned,

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