And ladies, this man, it's who he is. Your job is to get behind his eyes, see how he sees life. Your job, gentlemen, is to get behind your wife's eyes.

And to really understand what makes Gene tick.

And she's not like any other women.

So when you and I are talking about women today

or men, keep in mind, all men are not the same, all women are not the same.

That's your job that God's given to you

to be the PI, the private investigator

into what this woman or man is all about.

Dr. Kevin Lehman joins us today on Focus on the Family,

sharing his tips about having a lifetime romance with your spouse.

Your host is Focus President and author Jim Daly and I'm John Fuller.

Hey John we have an audience with us today in the studio so I want to ask all the guests

there's probably 10 or 12 people around us. What do you think the record is for the longest marriage, the world's longest

marriage? Anybody? Just yell it out. 75? Anybody else? 82?

That's a good guess. Any 87 years think of that 87 years

Zell myra and Herbert Fisher are the record holders they got married in

1924 and stayed married until Herbert passed away in 2011 at the age of a

hundred and five.

That is incredible. I understand they were believers. We'll get to ask them some of their secrets when we get to

to heaven. Yeah, that's the place we'll need to ask that, but I love it.

I think the question all of us have is, how can we be like the Fishers?

What did they do well, right?

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