I have saved myself a lot of sleepless nights and tears and text messages and pull-ups and all

pulling up on people like I have saved myself all of that by guarding my heart

and not expecting too much or giving too much too soon. And I think I've said this to you before

where I am the person that whatever a man says he is able to offer me, I expect nothing more

and nothing less. I do not try to convince, I do not try to change, I do not try to cook my

way to your heart. We put point of shame. The womb isn't just about where I give birth to

to perfect talk. I was basically all of her nevers. I never imagined my journey would inspire

people all over the world. You have set a standard in love. I was dating a young lady who helped

me heal. Wow, this woman is a ride a dive. The conversations have really helped me to change my

perspective on relationships. At 19 attorneys at one time they were speaking into my ear.

I didn't turn to you. My last relationship, they did a no wrong. What you did not know is I had

a whole little situation lined up that evening. Your transparency is literally setting people free.

And you're unique. You ain't like nobody else. I noticed that right away.

You're gonna be right. Thank you. I received that. Let one of them Barbie doll bodies walk away.

You go say, dear future wife. You know what they're gonna go rednet box.

I'm the Terrace R.W. Field and welcome to the dear future wifey podcast.

Welcome to a dear future wifey podcast. I'm your host, the Terrace R.W. Field. Hey,

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Well, season five, we started off really, really great. And this episode is gonna keep the momentum.

I'm so excited to talk to my homie. When we get on the phone, we talk for hours and it's just an

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