The tenacity it takes to face your inadequacies and continue to try, try, try, that's where we've succeeded.

What I'm good at and what we're good at together is not being right all the time, it's basically learning from your mistakes.

Most successful people in the world are the people that can self-soothe, so can you avoid being triggered?

If you're being triggered and you look outward and you're angry at the person that triggered you, that's weakness.

You are manifesting weakness and you have to go, ooh, that means I have an insecurity around this saying, I need to address my insecurity.

And then that's going to put you in a far more powerful position to move forward.

People that are successful, they can self-soothe, they can stay emotionally calm in the midst of a storm and everybody else is panicking, they're only looking at solutions.

Most people can only see, these are the 152 ways that this could go wrong.

No matter how outrageous, there is a way to pull this off.

Stop telling me all the things that aren't going to work, tell me the thing that is going to work.

And successful people are about that, they are good decision-makers, they are hyper resilient, they don't stop a failure, they don't get in their own way from an ego perspective.

They're looking nakedly at their own inadequacies and they've got enough confidence to get people going behind them.

So if you can manage your emotions, if you've got the courage to fight through that storm, if you're not easy to knock off your pedestal and you're humble enough to know that you're almost certainly making mistakes, so that you know when the correct course, that's the recipe.

The thing with excuses is sometimes they're very true, but it doesn't serve you, it doesn't serve your goal.

So are you going to let it sit with you or even find a way around it?

The key to me being driven is identifying what my passion is and my mission is.

So if I don't have a passion in the mission, then I don't have a drive.

If I could wake up every single fricking day and fight for that 14 year old girl that was me, that didn't believe in herself, that felt ugly, that was teased, that was made fun of for my lurch, I would fight for that 13 year old girl.

So if I can help her to believe, she could become anything she wants, if she sets her mind to it and works hard, then I feel like my job is done.

Every day I wake up for that 14 year old Lisa.

You can become anything you want to become, but you're going to have to pay a heavy price to get there.

So the question is, what is it that you want to do?

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