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The Audio Long Read

Dinner with Proust: how Alzheimer’s caregivers are pulled into their patients’ worlds

The Audio Long Read

The Guardian

Society & Culture

4.32.4K Ratings

🗓️ 17 March 2023

⏱️ 27 minutes

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0:00.0

This is The Guardian.

1:00.0

The Guardian is a very rare, coiled in a bun.

1:02.0

Although she is usually smartly turned out, smelling of powder and lavender, only Henry knows

1:09.4

how much effort this entails.

1:12.4

Whenever he tries to cut her nails, give her a bath or change her clothes, Ida's small

1:18.1

face contorts into something unrecognizable.

1:22.2

She becomes like a fierce, cornered animal.

1:28.5

In recent Ida's families moved to New York from Austria in 1935 when both were ten years

1:34.2

old.

1:36.0

They met at the City College of New York, and in 1948, two years to the day after graduation,

1:42.8

they married.

1:44.6

Allowing for the usual ups and downs, their marriage was a good one.

1:49.2

They liked the same novels and films and shared a love of chamber music.

1:54.4

Her apartment is lined with books and a large collection of Deutsche Gramophone LPs.

2:00.5

There isn't a CD in the house because, as Henry explained, they couldn't bear to betray

2:05.8

their beloved vinyl.

2:09.2

While Henry took to American culture right away, Ida continued to miss the V&E's world

2:14.5

she had known as a child.

2:17.1

And while Henry joined a mid-level architectural firm and embarked on a career, Ida struggled

2:23.1

to find her identity.

2:25.6

She wanted to be a writer, then a photographer, then a decorator.

2:30.6

She wanted, she said, to carve out something of her own, but nothing ever came of it.

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