how you were raised significantly impacts how you decide to raise your children,

whether you decide to raise your children the same way that your parents raised you,

or you didn't like the way that your parents raised you. So you try to do the exact opposite.

And when you get together in the relationship

and you don't have those conversations

about parenting styles, like how was you, how was you parented when you was growing up, how do you

want to parent your kids?

Because it's so many things that affected the culture, your religion, your political

views, the community in which you were raised in.

It all affects people's parenting styles.

And if you don't have those conversations, it can have a huge impact on your relationship or dissatisfaction in your relationship. What's up real ones? Welcome back to the relationship podcast where we're bringing the real back to

relationships. Yes sir. I'm Asha Steele and I'm Devon Steele and we're so excited that you guys are

tuning in today with us. Yeah man like when we when we started this podcast

We always we always talked about starting it because we wanted to keep it real.

Like always keep it real with you

because we know that on social media

there's a lot of fake tissues relationships.

Unfortunately.

And a lot of people aspire to be like relationships that are not even real.

So we wanted to create this platform where we keep it real, where we talk about the successes

that we have in our marriage, but we also talk about our failures

or areas in which we're struggling in so I'm excited to shoot this episode today

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