What's the difference between love versus being in love?

Well, love is allowing.

You're allowing that other person to be who they are.

My favorite quote from Teaknan Han, you must love in such a way that the person you love feels free, allowing them to be there.

It's, I mean, the other thing about being in love

typically really is talking about kind of infatuation most time my experience

that last maybe six months typically and then it kind of wears off and then you get

to like what you're like day in and day out without the butterflies without the obsessive

thinking like the time you wake up in the morning until you go to the time you go to sleep they're

always on your mind it kind of mellows out the longer you're together because you kind of get used

to each other but you're content with them and you want to continue to be around them you don't

feel like something's missing and like you got to go move on and you're you stay with them and you want to continue to be around them. You don't feel like something's missing, and like you've got to go move on, and you stay with them, and you're always keeping your eyes open for something better. When you walk down the street, you're proud to have her on your arm. You don't feel like you're missing out or you're settled. Feel content. Feel proud when other guys look at you and look at her and

are like, why is she with that dude? What the hell? That makes you feel good.