Did You Compromise in Marriage?

Cat & Nat Unfiltered

Cat & Nat

Relationships, Society & Culture, Comedy, Momtruths, Women's Podcast, Life

5 • 2.6K Ratings

🗓️ 25 April 2025

⏱️ 41 minutes

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Summary

When we got married, we were young, in love, and willing to compromise a little to make it all work. But now, with a little life experience in the rearview mirror—and peri-menopause messing with our hormones—we have to ask: Would we do it all again, knowing what we know now? In this episode, Nat opens up about one of the biggest compromises in her marriage—something Mark let go of that didn’t seem like a huge deal at the time, but looking back, turned out to be far more meaningful than either of them realized.

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0:00.0	Replaced by an understanding of what I want and need having sex on my terms,
0:04.5	gone is the insecure woman of my 30s and 40s.
0:07.6	As for what I want and need, I've discovered not all men are equipped to deliver.
0:13.4	If marital sex was about getting pregnant and feeling safe, post-divor sex is about asking for what I want.
0:20.6	Drop it like a tie.
0:21.5	Drop it like a tie.
0:23.3	Natalie, what do I do?
0:26.8	I hope it's giddy-gitty.
0:29.4	Hi guys, it's Friday.
0:30.4	Oh my gosh.
0:31.2	I was lying in bed last night, late at night.
0:34.3	With my vibrator.
0:35.3	I've been sick for, oh, you know they're apparently.
0:39.0	This is crazy.
0:39.8	Tell me.
0:40.8	Apparently, if you watch the internet, they are making vibrators illegal in Texas.
0:48.3	You mean like the internet or the news?
0:50.0	I don't know what's, I mean, the news is, there's so many news sources. So in Texas, you say they're going to, they're going to make it, didn't they say they're going to make it harder to get a vibrator than a gun?
0:57.9	Yes.
0:58.6	Well, guess anyone can get a gun, right?
0:59.9	I don't know.
1:00.5	I'm not in America, but they're going to, you can't, it's going to be like illegal to buy a vibrator.
	...

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