Diagnosing Friends, Triangulation, Parenting, and Other Things
Psychology In Seattle Podcast
Kirk Honda
4.5 • 1.3K Ratings
🗓️ 28 April 2023
⏱️ 39 minutes
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00:00 Applying attachment theory to peers
9:00 Power differentials in relationships
13:12 Recognizing biases
15:32 Splitting up a family for therapy
19:37 Differentiation within family
33:33 Think Before You Sleep
38:55 OPP
40:20 Conservative therapists
1:04:32 Age appropriate sex education
1:18:19 Cuddle therapy
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April 28, 2023
The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®
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| 0:00.0 | Hey dessert listeners, I thought I would answer some up or to your patron emails. |
| 0:03.1 | This first email is from up to your patron Austin from Texas, which is kind of a funny scenario. |
| 0:09.2 | He says, I emailed some time back asking you for a recommendation on learning about avoidant |
| 0:14.6 | attachment. |
| 0:15.6 | And you recommended I listened to the attachment deep dive that you made. |
| 0:19.4 | And I finally finished listening to it. |
| 0:21.7 | And I wanted to say thanks. |
| 0:22.9 | The episodes were so insightful and engaging. |
| 0:25.0 | I learned so much about myself and my attachment style and my relationship. |
| 0:28.2 | I found a lot of comfort in understanding my avoidant style and how I could better |
| 0:32.0 | get in touch with what's going on with me. |
| 0:33.9 | It also provided a ton of insight into my relationship. |
| 0:36.0 | And I loved sharing everything I learned with my girlfriend. |
| 0:38.6 | And we were able to discuss our attachment styles and how they worked together. |
| 0:41.6 | So again, thank you so much. |
| 0:42.8 | Just chiming in here. |
| 0:43.8 | Yeah, me too. |
| 0:45.4 | Attachment theory has helped me understand almost every relationship and every conflict |
| 0:50.9 | that I have ever been in and ever will be. |
| 0:53.9 | It's a powerful concept, not only with my wife, but also with my work relationships, |
| 0:58.7 | my family relationships, my relationship with myself. |
| 1:01.3 | All my distortions can be explained, conceptualized through attachment theories, understanding |
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