Desperation vs. “Not Playing Games.” ft. Julien
We Met At Acme
Dear Media, Lindsey Metselaar
4.2 • 2.4K Ratings
🗓️ 28 March 2021
⏱️ 59 minutes
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Summary
In this full episode, I am virtually joined by actor and fellow podcaster Julien Marlon. We discuss if girls should hit on guys, the difference between French men and American men, being grateful for dates, breaking down the thank you text, our TikTok fight, why games have got to go, where a guy's head may be at after a date, LA girls vs. NYC girls, the disparity between TikTok and the podcast, rules around sleeping together, if our grandparents advice is still valid, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss if men love bitches, having a best friend of your desired gender, SO’s who work a lot, questions to ask after 4 dates, and what my healthy relationship has taught me.
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| 0:00.0 | The following podcast is a deer media production. |
| 0:06.4 | Hey guys, welcome back to We Met Adakmi. It is my half birthday today. So to people celebrate |
| 0:13.2 | half birthdays, I don't know. But this means I'm 30 and a half, which means I've done literally |
| 0:18.6 | nothing this year in terms of being 30 and I'm about to be 31 in six months, which is pretty |
| 0:26.3 | fucking wild. If you ask me, I feel like I should really be turning 30 again, but whatever. |
| 0:35.2 | Today we have a very interesting guest. This guy's name is Julian and I found him because |
| 0:42.4 | I did a TikTok video about why you shouldn't say text. Thank you after the first date and then he |
| 0:48.8 | duetted my video, which is essentially a TikTok term for like responded to my video with the video |
| 0:54.4 | clip in there. And he was like, was this girl raised by wolves? This is horrible advice, |
| 1:01.4 | blah blah blah. So then we had a TikTok fight. And then I was like, you know what? I'm going to |
| 1:06.9 | invite this guy on the podcast. Obviously he has a differing opinion, which makes for good |
| 1:12.3 | listening. And we should be debating this. And so I brought him on the podcast. That is today's |
| 1:17.7 | episode. I am so excited for you to hear our debate spoiler alert. We did kind of agree at |
| 1:23.8 | the end, believe it or not. So I'm curious what you think after listening and excited to hear |
| 1:30.5 | your feedback. But before we get into that, I'm just going to answer a few quick questions that |
| 1:34.8 | you had submitted. A lot of recent conversation on the Instagram and the podcast and in our clubhouse, |
| 1:42.4 | which we've been doing. By the way, we've been doing this really fun clubhouse every Monday at 9 pm |
| 1:46.8 | EST with my best friend from college who we all have differing opinions. So it's really fun. And |
| 1:53.7 | they're mostly married having babies, et cetera. And talked about some girl talked about, you know, |
| 2:00.8 | her boyfriend having a friend that's a girl that he's really close with. And my friend, |
| 2:06.2 | Brit was basically just like, no, have him stop being friends with her, you know, men should not |
| 2:11.7 | have a girl best friend. And I think like part of me is like, okay, no, they can have like close, |
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