If two people are doing the work, the more independent person will grow their capacity to acknowledge

that they are in fact dependent at times and they won't have a problem with that. So, All right. Welcome back to another episode of the

relationship school podcoast. Hi. Hi. Hi. I had a really lovely morning with you.

I'm having a lovely morning with you. Yes, it's still going. Yeah. It's a nice

sipping our tea and coffee. Yeah, a decaf. Mm-hmm. Got in the ice cold, frozen with ice chunks in it hot cold plunge yeah it's really

working for us it's really working for us people it's hot cold hot cold is

for the really wakes you out.

Yeah, whoa.

Completely.

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All right, in this episode we're going to do a follow-up

with some of the listener questions,

particularly on Instagram.

I recorded a reel about dependency and interdependence on on Instagram and I said drop your

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