AMA - Unresolved Conflicts, Sexual Desire Differences, Challenging Friends - Jayson & Ellen - 426

Relationship Coaching School Podcast

Jayson Gaddis

Relationships, Relationshippodcast, Sex, Relationshipadvice, Society & Culture, Jaysongaddispodcast, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.6 • 981 Ratings

🗓️ 20 December 2022

⏱️ 24 minutes

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Summary

Shavani asks, “Most times conflicts drain us of mental energy and time, even with both partners’ willingness to work through it. For me, conflict often takes hours of constant talking, fighting, and finally resolving. This is especially tough when work is involved that requires preparation and clarity. How do we work through conflict in a way that doesn’t impact other parts of our lives that are important for our personal growth and well-being?”

Kim wonders, “Have you ever covered sexual frequency in a marriage? He wants it WAY more because that’s how he thinks of connection, and I don’t want it nearly enough because he won’t open up, let me in, and connect on a deeper emotional level, so there is a constant struggle.”

Lilian is curious: “I have a dear friend that means well but always plays devil’s advocate when I come to her with a painful experience or when I need support. She says it’s because she’s a Libra. Where’s the line of calling your friend out on their B.S., and holding space for them with empathy in moments when they are experiencing pain?”

Join Ellen and Jayson as they unpack listener questions regarding unresolved conflicts, sexual desire differences, and challenging friendships.

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0:00.0	It's normal for people at least at some point to be in really different places around their sexual interest and desire and capacity.
0:08.0	So it's really important to talk about this. Welcome back to the Relationships School Podcast.
0:24.0	Hi. Welcome back to the Relationship School Podcast.
0:33.4	Hi.
0:34.4	Hi.
0:35.4	Who are you?
0:36.4	I'm Ellen Bader.
0:37.2	And I'm Jason Gattis.
0:39.0	We are back to answer listener questions here. This podcast is all about growth and
0:45.0	development becoming who you are through the vehicle of
0:47.6	relationships, learning how to become a better communicator, better listener,
0:52.0	better speaker, a better speaker learning.
0:54.0	Yeah, bigger, better person, learning about your past perhaps.
0:58.0	And yeah, we really believe that this is such a vital part of your life that if you can figure this out then
1:06.4	Perhaps you'll be more capable of figuring out all the other challenges you're you got gone on
1:11.2	I hope you have ordered my new book by now getting to zero how to work through conflict in your high stakes relationships
1:17.7	It's already getting dozens of five-star reviews on Amazon. I've heard from a lot of you. Thank you for buying the book, buying it on audible, buying it on Kindle. I really appreciate it. I really appreciate the support. I think this book is going to help a lot of people. It's all about how do we get back to a good place
1:34.5	after some kind of disconnection or rupture or conflict.
1:37.7	That's what the entire book is about.
1:40.2	And if you want a roadmap on how to get back to a good place, what I call zero,
1:44.1	please order my book. Getting to zerobook.com, get you some extra goodies, a conflict quiz,
1:50.8	some additional PDFs, etc, and you can order it in all the places and
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