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The New Man

Defending the Ego Makes Us Weak — Aubrey Marcus (Encore)

The New Man

Tripp Lanier

Self-improvement, Education, Business, Health & Fitness, Entrepreneurship

4.6644 Ratings

🗓️ 9 August 2022

⏱️ 49 minutes

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Summary

What would your buddies think about you if they knew other men were sleeping with your wife? Are you only valuable if you’re working hard? And do you only do things that you know you can do well? Aubrey Marcus has had business success while also being outspoken in areas that challenge the ways most people think. In this encore episode, we talk about lessons he’s learned from open relationships, rituals with plant medicines, and how we find true strength when we stop defending our egos. In this interview: What is Total Human Optimization? How most high performers are driven by their demons Having success and wondering “Now what?” The danger of seeking validation through success, sex, etc. Why “tough guys” are tortured Plus: The deep pain Aubrey felt in his open relationship What really scares Aubrey? Does enjoying your life threaten your ability to be successful? “When you quit defending stuff you’re no longer vulnerable.” Phil Stutz: “Only the dead survive” https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/08/aubrey-marcus You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com

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0:00.0

Before we start the show, I want to thank the thousands of you, the thousands who have read.

0:06.6

This book will make you dangerous. Many of you have told me that the book's unique way of exploring

0:11.1

fear, confidence, and purpose has had a lasting impact, that it's much easier for you to get

0:17.1

clarity and direction about what really matters and what you want to do in this lifetime.

0:23.1

It's also amazing to hear that quite a few of you have read it multiple times and even bought

0:27.7

copies for friends. So thank you again. Just in case you weren't aware, I created a free companion

0:33.6

video course for the book. And in these videos, I walk you through the big takeaways and practices

0:38.8

from each chapter. And I even cover some extra stuff that's not included in the book. Information on how

0:44.6

to access the course is in newer versions of the book. And if you own an older version of the book and you

0:49.5

don't know how to access the course, just hit me up via the contact form at triplinear.com, and we'll get you all

0:55.7

set up. And one last thing, if you're one of the thousands who have already read the book,

1:00.4

please consider leaving an honest review on Amazon so that others can decide if it's right for them.

1:05.5

Again, thank you so much for reading this book will make you dangerous, and now let's start

1:10.0

the show.

1:26.4

You are listening to The New Man, Beyond the Macho Jerk and the New Age Wimp. Your host is Men's Coach Triplineer.

1:28.3

What would your buddies think about you if they knew other men were sleeping with your wife?

1:38.3

Are you only valuable if you're working hard?

1:41.3

And do you only do the things that you know you can do well?

1:45.0

Aubrey Marcus has had business success

1:48.0

while also being outspoken in areas that challenge the ways that most people think.

1:52.0

Today we're going to talk about lessons he's learned from open relationships,

1:56.0

rituals with plant medicines,

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