Decoding Different Cultures, Pursuing Dry Cleaners, Blasting Techno Music, and More
Were You Raised By Wolves?
Nick Leighton & Leah Bonnema
4.7 • 1.8K Ratings
🗓️ 13 April 2026
⏱️ 53 minutes
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Etiquette, manners, and beyond! In this episode, Nick and Leah tackle decoding different cultures, pursuing dry cleaners, blasting techno music, and much more. Please follow us! (We'd send you a handwritten thank-you note if we could.)
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EPISODE CONTENTS
- AMUSE-BOUCHE: "The Culture Map" by Erin Meyer
- A QUESTION OF ETIQUETTE: Food delivery services
- QUESTIONS FROM THE WILDERNESS: What's the best way to follow up on a date invitation now that I no longer live in the area? How do I respond to a parent who wants to know who else is going to my party before they'll RSVP for their child?
- VENT OR REPENT: Passing on narrow roads, Aggressive airport lounge music
- CORDIALS OF KINDNESS: Thanks for the accountability, Thanks for organizing our Dallas live show
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Hosts: Nick Leighton & Leah Bonnema
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Theme Music: Rob Paravonian
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| 0:00.0 | Hey there, it's Nick. |
| 0:01.0 | And it's Leah. |
| 0:01.9 | A real quick thing before we get going, would you please follow our show in whatever app you're using to listen to us right now? Yeah, you don't even have to listen. You could just hit follow and it would really mean a lot to us. Yeah, there's probably like a follow button or maybe there's a bell or a plus sign. Like there's some symbol somewhere and then you'll get notified whenever we have a new episode. We would so appreciate it. |
| 0:22.7 | We really would. |
| 0:23.3 | It makes a huge difference for our show. like there's some symbol somewhere, and then you'll get notified whenever we have a new episode. |
| 0:21.4 | We would so appreciate it. We really would. It makes a huge difference for our show, |
| 0:24.9 | so please do that. Thank you so much. And now let's start the show. Let's get in it. |
| 0:34.7 | Do you not read between the lines? Do you leave vague delivery instructions? |
| 0:39.3 | Do you ask to see the guest list before RSVPing? |
| 0:42.3 | Or you raised by wolves? |
| 0:44.3 | Let's find out. |
| 0:45.3 | Here are things that can make it better when we have to live together. We all use a little help some people don't ask themselves |
| 1:00.1 | for you raised by wolves. |
| 1:04.2 | Hey everybody, it's Nick Layton. |
| 1:06.0 | And it's Leah Bonema. |
| 1:07.5 | And let's take it right now, too, with our mooseboosh. |
| 1:09.6 | I feel my panic rising. So for today's a Mooseboosh, |
| 1:14.5 | I want to go to my etiquette library. Oh. And as you may not know, I actually have quite an extensive |
| 1:21.5 | library of etiquette related books, hundreds and hundreds of volumes. And so today I want to do a little book report. Okay, I actually visualize going to your library. I put on little gloves. I pulled out a book. I'm gently turning the pages. I mean, some of the books are quite precious to me. You know, I have some like first edition, first printings. Yeah. And some of these are, you know, from the 1800s. I think probably the oldest book I have is probably mid-1800s. And so, |
| 1:44.8 | very fragile. But for today, I want to talk about the culture map, which is a book from 2014 by |
| 1:50.7 | Aaron Meyer. And it's really a business book. It's about how different cultures sort of operate. And if |
| 1:57.6 | you're like a German car company opening up a factory in Brazil, what does that mean to be a German culture operating in a Brazilian culture? And so that's really what the book is about. But there are some very interesting etiquette lessons in there, which I don't know if the author intended, but that's how I read it. So I just want to kind of introduce you to this book and some of the ideas in it. And then if you're intrigued, then certainly you can read the whole thing. Oh, I'm excited. |
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