I have a question for you why are you making someone else the main character of your movie your real-life movie this is your life this is your reality why are you making somebody else the center and the focus why are you allowing someone to be the center of your orbit it's funny so I went to Sedona for a healing retreat a couple of years ago with a few of my girlfriends I went to a psychic very randomly and when I walked into his room

he literally said to me one thing that stood out and I never forgot it I'm actually I actually have a session with him tonight if you're interested in learning more about you know psychics and all that stuff feel free to DM me

I love going to psychics, but I stopped going recently because I also do believe that your thoughts create your reality and energy changes and shifts at all times

so you have to take these things lightly you have to take these things with a grain of salt sometimes it's just fun it's an activity to do and when I was in Sedona I was going through a breakup and I was like you know what I'm going to do this for fun I'm going to do this for me some form of self-care so I walk into his room his office and he says why are you making him the center of your orbit right now he's the sun and you're circling around him endlessly like some unrelatable planet

some planet that no one even knows the name of you're trying to make shit work with someone he's the sun and you're a planet just circling around him and orbiting around him making him the center of your world why are you doing that to yourself that really hit me

he was a little less harsh but I interpreted what he said that way because it was true it was really how I felt he just knew right away that I was making another person the center of my universe

while this person really didn't want anything to do with me at the time after that session I walked out feeling a new sense of empowerment because I realized that I had been centering this individual in my life

for so long and it was taking away from my strength from my power from my energy and it was causing me to spiral it was causing me to take away from my own self love and value

and I almost started to hate myself and that's really it's a pretty intense thing to say but I really did feel like I was at one of the lowest points of my life because I was constantly letting my energy be consumed by someone else and I completely took the focus off of myself

the key to having really successful relationships in your life is to actually de-center everyone else and to make yourself the priority you need to make yourself the focus you deserve that you deserve to be the main character of your own life

you are the main character of your own story no one else is you have one life to live your life is short your life is valuable and precious and if you're going to revolve your energy around someone else

and you're going to cater to their needs and follow them around like a puppy dog obviously that's your call that's your decision to decide

but why would you want to live your life essentially being controlled energetically by another person

before I really dive into today's episode which is going to be such a meaningful and powerful one

I want to mention that the dare to detach masterclass is welcoming all new members right now and it's an especially amazing class to take over the holiday season to level up to upgrade for 2024

to really detach and let go of anyone or anything that is no longer serving your growth so you can move into the new year feeling empowered

feeling like the best version of you and feeling fucking unstoppable we have such an amazing private community we have this awesome group chat

where all of us give each other advice and support each other through our healing process I'm actually retaking my own masterclass this holiday season

even I need the same reminders when it comes to leveling up and detaching I'm a lover I love hard and sometimes I get attached to people even still

even with the podcast even with everything I've learned I get attached pretty quickly and I'm a lover and I'm planning on retaking my own masterclass this season

so I can work with you guys and level up with you guys in order to attract bigger and better things into my life and to manifest greater abundance

this year coming up 2024 is all about you creating new abundance attracting the right people and circumstances into your life

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