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Thanks For Asking

Debt, Lies, and Other Things Our Parents Leave Us

Thanks For Asking

Feelings & Co.

Society & Culture, Personal Journals, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.713.4K Ratings

🗓️ 7 February 2023

⏱️ 48 minutes

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Summary

Identity theft is something many of us are familiar with, but we have a specific image of what this looks like – our data being stolen online, or someone getting a hold of our social security number. But almost a third of identity theft crimes are committed by a family member. This episode tells the story of two people who experienced financial abuse at the hands of their parents. Support our new independent production (and get bonus content galore!) by joining TTFA Premium. We now offer tiers as low as $4.99 / month. Sign up. Our Substack subscribers get first dibs on ticket sales, new merch, show announcements and more. Join here. You can find the episode transcript here. You can catch up with TTFA on Instagram, Twitter and Facebook using @ttfapodcast. Nora's Instagram is @noraborealis. SHOP OUR SPONSORS: OSEA: Head to oseamalibu.com and use code TTFA for 10% off ROTHY'S: Get $20 off your first purchase at rothys.com/TERRIBLE VEGAMOUR: Visit vegamour.com/Terrible and use code Terrible to save 20% on your first order THE FARMER'S DOG: Get 50% off your first box at thefarmersdog.com/nora Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Monso Business Banking. It just works. So you can too. Join businesses like Target

0:05.7

to Wishing by opening a Monso Business account.

0:07.7

What I love about Monso Business account is how easy everything is. It can be filtered,

0:12.8

it can be tagged. We thought we'd have to manage our business around our banks, but that's

0:17.3

not the case for Monso.

0:18.4

My name is Shun. I am the Founder of Target Trition.

0:21.6

Apply in minutes at Monso.com slash business. To apply you must be a sole trader or director

0:26.6

of a limited company, UK Business is only terms and conditions apply.

0:56.6

I'm Nora McEnerney and this is Terrible Thanks for asking.

1:09.4

And I'm Claire McEnerney. I'm a producer here on the show and yeah I'm related to Nora.

1:15.1

We are second cousins I guess. Yes your dad is my cousin. Your grandpa is my uncle somehow

1:23.4

somewhere in there. We are related. Aside from our family tree, what are we talking about

1:28.7

today Claire? So I want to talk to you about identity theft. And so first off I want you to kind

1:35.6

of tell me when you think of identity theft, what are the things that pop into mind for you?

1:40.5

I think about the fishing scam from Geek Squad that I absolutely fell for. I think about

1:48.1

100% I was like oh my god I better open this invoice. I've never once used Geek Squad but

1:55.3

they sent me an invoice. I should open it up. Let me click these links. Let me put in my information.

2:02.2

I think about people going through your garbage, you know grabbing your bank statements.

2:10.1

I think about the dark web. The deep dark web. And that's what I've always thought too.

2:15.4

I too fell for a scam once. My Gmail was hacked and I left them right in. Come on in.

2:21.1

Come on in. What else would you like to know my mother's maiden name? I have grown though. I now

2:25.4

have every single password that is just gobbledy-gook and I can't remember them all but

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