Debra & The Betrayal of Her Bullying Narcissistic Family | Domestic Abuse

Narcissist Apocalypse: Patterns of Abuse

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Self-improvement, Education, Society & Culture, Relationships

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🗓️ 1 April 2024

⏱️ 104 minutes

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In this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, Debra tells her story of being the family scapegoat for 50 years. Following a horrific three-year period, in which Debra discovered that her teenage daughter had been sexually assaulted by her nephew (the only son of Debra's golden child turned narcissist twin brother), Debra broke up with her family after enduring decades of emotional/psychological abuse, which in Debra's childhood was also punctuated by physical abuse. It's a story of intergenerational trauma, scapegoats, gaslighting, the golden child, competition, physical abuse, emotional abuse, sexual assault, bullying, control, cruelty, epiphanies, rationalizations, the need for approval, being good enough, resilience, courage, putdowns, and manipulation. ***Debra would like to recognize and acknowledge all the caregivers and support from police, child services, and support services involved in her story.*** *** CONTENT WARNING - This episode discusses physical abuse and child sexual assault.*** If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at [email protected] To help out our podcast, please fill out our listener survey, click here. PODCAST RECOMMENDATIONS: Perfect Prey With Dr. Christine Cocchiola | Click Here The Covert Narcissism Podcast | Click Here Something Was Wrong | Click Here If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource. If you need help moving due to domestic violence, Shelter Movers may be able to help you. They operate by referral. Clients may be referred by any person of authority (social worker, doctor, police, crisis counselor, teacher, etc.) or public agency (shelter, hospital, school, workplace, place of worship, sexual assault centre, etc.). To reach them, click here. Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/ Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse Join our Youtube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpTIgjTqVJa4caNWMIAJllA Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:30.7	On this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, we talk with an abuse survivor named Deborah,
0:37.3	and Deborah was the scapegoat for her bullying
0:39.8	abusive family.
0:41.5	It's a story of control, cruelty, epiphanies, rationalizations, the need for approval, and being
0:49.8	proud of your new family.
1:10.3	Music proud of your new family. Welcome to Narcissist Apocalypse, everyone.
1:14.7	I am Brandon Chadwick, and with me today, we have Deborah.
1:20.1	How are you?
1:21.8	Well, thanks.
1:23.2	Thank you for being here.
1:25.1	And if you want to be a guest like Deborah is today, please do go to our
1:29.0	website at Narcissistapocalypse.com. Top of the page, there's a button that says guest form.
1:34.5	When you click on that button, it takes you to our guest form page. And there you can read all
1:39.1	of our instructions and either send us an email at Narcissistapocalypse at gmail.com or fill out our guest form and press
1:46.1	the submit button and please do send it in the format that we ask for. And today's episode has a
1:53.2	content warning as we do graphically discuss physical abuse on many occasions in child sexual assault
2:00.5	in this episode.
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