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Death, Sex & Money | Your IRL Dating Stories

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41.1K Ratings

🗓️ 13 May 2025

⏱️ 58 minutes

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Summary

A man delivers an unforgettable pickup line. A woman asks her Uber driver out on a date. A rancher swears off men and then, years later, suddenly develops feelings for the guy down the road. This week, listeners share offline dating stories for the ages, including charming meet-cutes, frustrating missed connections, and happily ever afters.  We also hear from Maxine Simone Williams, founder of WeMetIRL, a company that hosts in-person dating events in Brooklyn, NY.  To learn more about our Uber driver love story, check out this marriage announcement in the New York Times!  Podcast production by Cameron Drews. Death, Sex & Money is now produced by Slate! To support us and our colleagues, please sign up for our membership program, Slate Plus! Members get ad-free podcasts, bonus content on lots of Slate shows, and full access to all the articles on Slate.com. Sign up today at slate.com/dsmplus. And if you’re new to the show, welcome. We’re so glad you’re here. Find us and follow us on Instagram and you can find Anna’s newsletter at annasale.substack.com. Our new email address, where you can reach us with voice memos, pep talks, questions, critiques, is [email protected]. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

One of my very favorite kinds of stories is a how we met story, when romantic partners describe the moment they connected.

0:09.1

And it's not just the spark or the chemistry that makes these stories powerful, even though those are great.

0:15.4

It's about all the factors that had to line up to bring these two people together.

0:20.7

These days, those factors often include an algorithm.

0:25.1

A dating app shows you someone and you feel something and go from there.

0:30.5

But also, uh, dating apps, they can be a slog.

0:37.1

And there does seem to be a growing push these days for offline

0:41.8

dating experiences. I keep hearing more and more about running clubs or speed dating events or just the

0:48.1

people who are deleting their dating apps and have decided to move through the world optimistically

0:52.8

looking out for romance wherever it shows up.

0:56.6

But we know offline dating, it's not always a picnic either. Where do you go to look? How do you know

1:02.5

who's really available? There's a lot of letting go and leaving those things up to fate.

1:08.9

This week, we asked you to share those kinds of stories about

1:14.5

meeting in real life and falling in love, and we fell absolutely head over heels for your responses.

1:22.7

I met my now wife about 10 years ago at a concert in San Francisco.

1:30.3

My now husband and I met actually through softball.

1:33.3

Brandon, I met at his family's little tiny dive resort in the Bahamas.

1:38.3

We met at my friend's birthday at a club.

1:42.3

It's very cliche.

1:43.3

I am a sound recordist in film, and she's an actress. And I

1:49.0

remember I first saw her, and she was wearing this beautiful red dress and this black wig. She was so

1:56.9

beautiful. When I saw him, I just felt this recognition. I felt like I knew him already.

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